My Gift of Grace: A game for fostering end-of-life discussions

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We’ve written before about how challenging it can be to broach the topic of death and end-of-life planning with friends and family members. Although we all know that eventually we’ll have to make arrangements for our own passing or for the passing of a loved one, thinking about those experiences before they come knocking may take us out of our comfort zones.

Recently, we learned about a resource for this very challenge that we think is pretty awesome. It’s called My Gift of Grace, and it turns end-of-life discussions into a game.

The game is designed by a group called The Action Mill, which specializes in making discussions about death more comfortable and commonplace. My Gift of Grace is a question-and-answer game that sparks discussion about topics related to both life and death. It comes with a deck of question cards, and it can be played with close friends, acquaintances, or even strangers.

If you’ve struggled in the past with fostering end-of-life discussions, this seems like the perfect tactic to try. The creators have even provided some advice for how to persuade others to play My Gift of Grace with you.

Check out the My Gift of Grace website to see a video of participants playing the game for the first time. Their reactions are really encouraging. Online, you’ll also find a page with some example questions and testimonials from medical professionals and regular Joes.

My Gift of Grace can be purchased online for $24.95. Sounds like a bargain to us!

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